My Stalker Is Back – Ladies Beware

They just don’t learn, do they?  The letter I posted a while back telling this man to pretty much fuck off and never to contact me again — now he is going through every website he can find me on to e-mail me and make contact under alternate identities (he has a very distinct style and cadence to all his communications and even his aliases are similar). 

On the same day last week, he contacted me at 3 different places with the same message, under 3 different names.  He’s been told to stop — he is now officially a stalker.

Ladies, if this person contacts you, BEWARE.  He lives in Port St. Lucie, FL for now, but moves around a lot.  He claims to be a computer tech, and also to work for the City of Port St. Lucie.  His online ID’s usually begin with “Big” (bigteddybear, bigsexy…) and he has used a couple others which unfortunately I can’t recall off the top of my head because I block them as they come in. 

The snippet of his latest e-mail below may seem innocent enough, but keep in mind this comes after a rash of alternate-id e-mails in which he claims to be someone else, then when he is confronted about his identity, rapidly deletes those accounts and comes back with a new one.  His e-mails are laden with schizophrenic signs, and show that he is in no way in touch with reality.  The important part is what I had to send him today.  Will he take this seriously?  I highly doubt it, as he hasn’t the mental capacity to realize when he’s gone too far.

These are the lengths I am having to go to in order to stop him and protect myself, and I am posting this so that you will see the extent of the issue:


To: Ron Maury, aka Ron Maskell
Effective: September 8, 2008
Pay very close attention:  No, we can not be friends, or anything else, ever.
Now the actions you have been taking by going through other websites to find me, hunting me down on the web, and creating alternate identities in order to get messages through to me (surname of “Maury” then “Maskell,” website ID of “Bigsexy,” etc.) are called STALKING.  You were advised numerous times, the most recent being several weeks ago to NOT contact me again due to your mental and emotional instability.
You will hereby CEASE AND DESIST ALL COMMUNICATIONS with me, immediately.
Because your mental and emotional instability and your going to alternate means to stalk me make my safety feel THREATENED, I feel there is no telling what extent you, in your deteriorated mental state, will go to in order to “be with me” in some form.
THEREFORE, IF you contact me further, by ANY means, under ANY “handle,” “nickname” or identity, I will put a restraining order on you. 
If you VIOLATE this restraining order by contacting me again after having been served with it, you will be arrested.
I am NOT playing games with you.  DO NOT CONTACT ME AGAIN.
—– Original Message —-
From: Ron maskell <>
To: <private>
Sent: Friday, September 5, 2008 9:57:21 AM
Subject: please read

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About lifeinpawprints

I'm a 40-something single mom blogging from the East Coast of Florida, trying to have faith in a world that has not been so kind. Always searching for a creative outlet, be it blogging, photography or crafting things from god-knows-what.

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